I cheated on My Man with Our Neighbor
My name is Sandra,l am 26 years old, While l was at campus n l got involved with an old guy, he told me he’s single plus he has 4 children from his 2 Ex-wives.he paid for my tuition while l was in my Final year.
After Campus l moved in with him and everything was going on so well until this year when he brought his 10-year-old girl to stay with us,This man chased away the maid saying that l am a woman l am entitled to do all house chores,Now l happened to everything at home from cooking to washing etc,while the daughter is Looking on, when this girl comes back home she just sits and watches Tv and eat, when l tried to talk to her the dad tells me to leave her daughter alone that she is still young, even when l happen to fall sick l ended up doing everything no help at all.
One day l threatened to leave him and he told me that “he’s not worried, to shorten the story, l got tempted and started sleeping with a guy who happens to be my neighbor and he has a wife but we’ve been using the withdraw method coz he told me that he is good at it but l don’t know what happened this time l started feeling funny so l went for a check up recently and l found out that l am pregnant,when l told this guy l am cheating with he told me that l should abort that he doesn’t want his wife to find out, yet l fear aborting plus l can’t tell my man coz we rarely have sex plus he told me that he doesn’t want to have more kids that maybe in the future.
What should l do? should l risk and abort?shd l move out and become a single mom? should l give birth then l take this baby to this man who happens to be the owner coz myself l have no job so can’t raise the child alone?Am l even in the right relationship r l am wasting time?will this old man ever respect me or he sees me as a young girl? should l lie to this old man that the pregnancy is his so that he can take responsibility? please help me l am confused.
Advice: I cheated on My Man with Our Neighbor
Jeez girl! Your life is so full of wrong decisions.The first one was was getting involved with an old guy while still at school.I know emotionally and psychologically you fee like you owe him because he paid your tuition and all.But you DON’T OWE him anything since you didn’t force him to help you out. What I’m trying to say is you don’t have to tolerate his rudeness and lack of affection. Pack your things and go start a new life with just you and your baby coz the dad is married.You knew that when you started the affair. – Nagasha Daphyn
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