How To Make My Wife Feel Secure Again
–Brenda changed since then she treated her hair, she wears too much makeup, she wears extension nails which make me very uncomfortable and when I tried to ask her about the nails she told me “I thought it is what you men want
How do I apologize for her to understand? Are there certain things I need to do for her to feel secure again?
“My name is Ethan I am married with one son I meet my wife Brenda at my former workplace she was such a caring woman I also loved her because she was natural. She had natural hair she would not wear makeup, she had well-trimmed nails all the things I always prayed for.
Brenda and I were so in love then we decided to get married we would make out often but Brenda later started to grow distant each time I wanted to make out she would refuse.She also stopped being the caring woman I feel in love with I felt so alone and somehow looked for a female friend I later started cheating on Brenda with this friend of mine but somehow Brenda found out.She got so mad at me however I apologized and reminded her of how she had last made out with me months ago and she forgave me I also broke off the relationship with my friend who totally understood my situation.
However Brenda changed since then she treated her hair, she wears too much makeup, she wears extension nails which make me very uncomfortable and when I tried to ask her about the nails she told me “I thought it is what you men want” The truth is these nails freak me out I loved Brenda for being natural I cheated because I felt alone how do I make Brenda go back to who she was before without being insecure?
How do I apologize for her to understand? Are there certain things I need to do for her to feel secure again?Please help me the situation is getting out of hand.”
Advice: How To Make My Wife Feel Secure Again
“Long nails freak me out too. but man where u still appreciating her? did u gape wen u saw a bleached woman with long nails when with yo wife? have u made a nice comment while watching TV about those fake women? is there a female celebrity you like who is so artificial? women respond to the way u treat them in most cases. if she doesn’t feel appreciated she wears out. again why rush to cheat? cant u even wait a year/ u will get her sick, then wat? In marriage, i think couples get too comfortable and forget God always pray for your spouse always. Marriage has some stages which u have to manage there’s Honeymoon, Conflict, Tension en again Honeymoon. always work hard to take back yo r/ships to honeymoon stages. STOP CHEATING. u be collecting curses upon yo family. Goodluck.” – Clare Anyiro
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