What Makes a Woman Respect a Man?
-She would cheat on me with well off guys and when things would fail she would come back to me and since l love her, l would take her back.
– if l get a stable Job and l start earning well will she ever respect me or will she change her characters? does this girl really love me?
Will she ever respect me?
“My name is Okumu; been dating Beatrice for 2years now right from college till we both graduated. She was so lucky coz she quickly got a job and she’s currently working whereas myself it’s been 8months with no stable job yet. Now while at college we WD support each other with the little we had tho most times in our relationship she would cheat on me with well off guys and when things would fail she would come back to me and since l love her, l would take her back.
The truth is I don’t come from a very well to do family and the same applies to her.but since l am a man l honestly try to take care of her, more Problems came when she got a job. She forgot all the hard times we went through together and how much sacrifices I would make to get ends meet esp on things like her hair. And every other simple basic need a girl would needs .to the extent that I would save the little money I get for my feeding so as to meet her demands.
I would go with one meal a day just to save enough money for whatever pressing needs she had. She began telling me every day of how my unemployment status frustrates her.how much I can’t afford to take her out on weekends. How much I don’t buy her gifts on big days like other guys. How much I can’t buy her trendy clothes. Telling me how I embarrass her in front of friends..etc.
She doesn’t respect me at all She talks back to me or shuts me up when am talking.this lady will never say sorry however much I am hurt in fact she says I should always say sorry first ..if we have misunderstandings she will never bother to fix things..instead it’s me who will in bid to reduce the pain I feel, l go down to my knees and apologise so as we can be peaceful. she is a perfectionist who believes she never makes a mistake or if she makes one am the cause. Besides she isn’t patient at all. When she visits me. I must be at home if am not at home that is a big issue.
Now I almost lost my life two days ago on a boda thankfully l didn’t get a lot of injuries and it was because she was rushing me, l had gone to buy her food to eat and she told me l should be back in 5 minutes but l failed to make it in time when l got back home l was dirty n bruised a bit but she didn’t even say sorry to me or ask wat had happened to me, We spend 80% of our time fighting. she shouts at me and she keeps saying she wants me to marry her.l love her but l am confused, is this relationship healthy? if l get a stable Job and l start earning well will she ever respect me or will she change her characters? does this girl really love me? does she treat me like this because she has a better Job than mine? should l just quit this relationship and l give dating a break>? coz l don’t even remember what love is all about..!”
Advice: What Makes a Woman Respect a Man?
When my Ex left me i promised myself to work hard so that she regrets her decision. And trust me it worked so well. Okumu you shouldn’t waste your precious love on people who don’t appreciate it move on but work hard one time, trust me one time she will come back pleading. – Kisenyi Duncan
Okumu. Beatrice no longer loves you again. Your level has become too low to stand her coz she hers got a better guy than you n I think you should stop forcing her to you. Please let her go. If not you will never have peace in your relationship and stop beaching on her. You will get another girl who will love you with all her heart. -Fiona Kipsy
U have genuine questions, but my simple question, what are you still doing in that relationship? I see ur so called girlfriend having a house boy instead of a boyfriend. Wake up young man, getting a job and money won’t buy you love. The earlier u decide to move on, the better. -Rugamba Felex
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